Sermons usually ignored by Young Ladies {Part 1}
I found this
topic being discussed and taught it is something I ought to expansiate on. I
have met many young people and mostly single ladies. There are a lot of
instructions that are been passed to this group of young people; both in the churches,
home and environments; but unfortunately, this instructions don’t sink don’t into
them; though they hear, they don’t accept. Most times, this people are pastors
and ministers children; they are people that you expect them to know the truth.
I have come across most of these people that have been good girls and Christians
at home but when they get to school; there will be a turnaround transformation;
this people will tell you; YES! I can now see! God is not that hard.
Let us highlight some of
this instructions and sermons that are so hard for ladies to accept.
SERMON 1: Don’t have a boyfriend.
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This is a big one for young ladies; especially the ones in the higher institution.
A very tough sermon indeed. Most youths are been counseled not to have a
boyfriend until they are ready for marriage.
This is most time difficult for them to accept this, because of
distractions from their friends, school system, environments, movies and even
families.
My Counsel: As a child of God, you are not supposed have
anything to do with boyfriend or girlfriend.
What is boyfriend or
girlfriend relationship?
Ø Boyfriend/Girlfriend
is not a scriptural relationship; Bible recognizes life partner.
Ø This is a relationship
of marriage mirage testing
Ø This is trial and
error relationships that most times do not last. Average lasting time of boyfriend
or girlfriend relationship is a three month; approximately, a semester.
Ø This is a relationship
that has destroyed a lot of destinies and actual marriages.
Ø This is a relationship
that has sent a lot of ladies to the psychiatric home.
Ø This is a relationship
that has created several children without a father.
Ø This relationship is
one that does not have a binding security or guarantee.
Ø It is one that
attracts fear of been jilted.
Ø It is a relationship where
you have several legal competitors.
Ø It is a relationship
creates torments.
Ø It is a relationship
that lays a wrong template that you will get used too, in the real marriage.
Ø It is a relationship
of God does not support.
. . . . . .And many more definitions can be
attached to this enticing dreaded relationship.
Biblical Stand
"And the Lord God said, It
is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him." {Gen 2:18}
The reason for marriage
is very clear. Any lady should not be seeking boyfriend but a life partner.
As a young girl, there
is time for everything; the sequence should be: GOD ð DESTINY ð PARTNER.
A young lady should
first seek God, know the ways of God, work for God and understand how to hear
from God. After you have sought God, Discover your destiny; you don’t have to
be a burden to your husband; Go to school, study , if possible, start work;
Know what God has brought you into this world for. During this processed you should
be praying for you partner, don’t wait till you are 30; start now. Also you should know that before you think of
marriage; you need to be matured; physically (Age), Spiritually, Mentally,
Socially.
For more information; get the tape or Book: Choosing
your life partner - D.K Olukoya. Contact mfm bookshop on: 08023922548, 08028392756,080 2736654.
SERMON 2: Don’t Allow A Guy You Are Dating Hug You.
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Haaaaaa! many young ladies don’t not like to hear this Then
you will ask? How does he show his emotions; how will we know we are connecting
with each other.
My Counsel: As a child of God, you should not
be dating! BUT you can go on a date with you partner. (Hoping, you are in your
courtship period, which should not take too long before marriage)
A Christian lady on a
date should discuss with her partner ahead; to set rules, such as not hugs,
kisses, pecking, necking, romance.
All these things can
actually be a ladder the devil will use to attack you.
NOTE THIS: You are not a Machine; you
are Human Being who has blood running in your vein; you have what is called hormones.
These hormones have no
respect for your spiritual strength, your statue or you tongues speaking; the
only recipe to this is not letting the hormones into action; No man is a giant. The hugs and romance could trigger the hormones
and even if nothing happens you will begin to pollute your thoughts and
imaginations.
Don’t set the Fire, which you will not be able
to handle.
SERMON 3: Do Not Visit Any Guy You Are Not Married To.
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Most marriage committee of a church will counsel you not to visit your fiancée.
They usually urge that the meeting be in church, eatery, or when a third party
will be present, else they should not go at all.
My Counsel: From my experience so far; some of these
rules been set are not necessarily sin; they are been made rules to guide us
from falling. Your friend might not follow the rule, escapes the repercussion;
you might be unfortunate and suffer the repercussion.
Illustration story
One sister in mfm church said she met one boy and they started
talking and became friends.
One day she decided, contrary to our teaching here,
to visit the brother in his house. She said when she got there; the boy that
claims he was born again, she was coming from church; the boy was coming from
church. Instead of the brother asking; how was service today? Immediately she
sat down, the first question he asked was, what she wanted to drink, she said,
just water; he brought water. The next thing the brother brought out was a condom; the person that is visiting for
the first time.
The sister quickly ran out. She might not be that fortunate.
Illustration story
There is this movie of the mount Zion ministry title “Just A
Little Sin”.
A fervent sister was
courting a fervent brother in the same church. They had just about two weeks to
their wedding, the sister wanted to collect something in the brother’s house
when it was late. Just within a twinkle of an eye, something that they never
planned before happen; they both committed fornication. That single act led
them to lies, manipulation, abortion; they even fell into the hands of the
occult and it eventually led to death. Their very bright destiny was cut off;
what was the origin of this calamity? The dangerous visit!
Please sisters, don’t trust any opposite sex to start visiting
them on your own. The guy doesn't even trust himself, let alone with you.
We will continue this discussion some other time; Ladies are usually
on the losing side; please keep your guard. It is well with you in Jesus name.
IF THE ENEMY HAS STOLEN FROM YOU;
RECOVERY IS BY FORCE.
STOP THEM BEFORE THEY STOP YOU,
GOD BLESS YOU.
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